Why Dont I Have What I Want?

“It Is Not about Controlling Thoughts, It Is about Guiding Thoughts”

―Esther Hicks

Let us Talk About What We Don't Have.

How many times have you found yourself looking at another human with those green goggles of jealousy on and wanting what they have whether it’s the designer handbag, the flashy new Mercedes, the holiday with clear blue seas and the white sandy beach or even physicality s the wash board abs or that big booty or something sentimental like the perfect family photo.

Come on how many times?

Ok so now I want you to think about that thing you want but do not have, thought about it?

Great, now tell me why you cannot have it?...

I am waiting...

No answer? I thought as much and that is because you can have it. that is right I said

YOU CAN HAVE IT.

I sat for almost a whole year thinking about how I couldn't get my dream job in marketing I remember messaging one of my friends and saying " I've been trying all year applying for these jobs and I've heard nothing back, its making me sad why can’t I get my dream job? ".

to which she replied with " I feel your resistance already with this message, you need ask and it is given".

I thought, resistance what does she mean I really want this job and she’s recommending me a book?? but none the less I took her advice and ordered ' Ask and It is Given By Esther & Jerry Hicks' .

The book is about manifesting your desires, how to achieve what you thought you couldn't it talks you through different processes that you can go through to reach those goals, finances, relationships, your health and over all a more positive mentality. helping you to make a more positive approach to life.

In only a short month from receiving and reading 'Ask and It Is Given' I received 4 Job offers genuinely could not believe it, how is that possible from reading a book? My mindset had changed I was more upbeat, less depressed even my partner noticed I wasn't being what we call 'sensitive' I went from shouting at him from leaving his dirty mug in the sink over night to leaving mine there too, just the other day my partner was wearing my healing stone bracelet and we were mucking around and it snapped all the little stones went everywhere, now a year ago I would of completely lost it and probably blamed him but I just sort of looked at him went ot oh and burst out laughing at the scattered stones. I no longer sweat the small stuff; it is irrelevant.

My point is that I was focusing so much on the fact that I wasn't getting any job offers, that once I had read that book I opened my mind I stopped asking myself "why can’t I get a job" to "which job do I want?" so I did some little positive changes in my approach to bagging these jobs, I dolled up my CV and I walked into those job interview rooms acting like I already had the job some might say that's cocky but I just felt confident which was backed up with my new positive mindset and it finally came together I had my choice of 4 jobs... I manifested that.

Believe it or not when you ask the universe for something it listens the universe answers back. This applies to my opening sentence you may be asking yourself how? how did she possibly get 4 job offers in a month? how can I manifest those things? well you ask the universe, now it’s not going to suddenly converse with you by saying " hello there I've just put some money in your bank to buy that cute gucci tote you've been eyeing up". It will be a more indirect approach something like...

- your boss offers you some overtime

- you get a tip at work from a customer

- you get a pay rise

These are just small examples of the universe answering your call. Accept them all!

Start imagining where you will place that designer handbag, the smell of the leather in your new Mercedes, how the pina colada will taste on that white sandy beach, how the clear blue sea will feel on your toes or plan your gym sessions for the week to get yourself those wash board abs.

Go manifest up a storm, believe you can, and you will.

Thanks to my friend for recommending the book and thanks to me for reading it.

Thanks for Reading 😊

Bee.